Words Creates your destiny , it is not a rocket science that you can't understand the basic phenomena of brain functioning , If you want to know the reason why your destiny is + or -ve you just need to understand what kind of words our environment is using or we are using in our daily basis, let me take an example if we often say the people of this world are not trust worthy ,i know we use these kind of words many time in our life, then think once if you are using that  the world is not trust worthy enough so what kind of thought you ll get mostly ,yes you are right its -ve thoughts because your brain or i must say your sub conscious mind always try to save you , so if world is not trust worthy then it ll give you -ve thoughts about world , if whole world is -ve then to whom you can trust , to whom with you can live, to whom with you can do business? no one! so you ll get become a -ve person from inside soon and your -ve belife would become stronger and you ll do negative actions with world.That we call your behavior. and you can understand what would be your destiny ?
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